today i'll be talking about friendship...
what is friendship???
google said ---- "best friend - the one friend who is closest to you
friend - a person you know well and regard with affection and trust....
again google said ---- "Friendship is a form of interpersonal relationship generally considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations. Friendship and association can be thought of as spanning across the same continuum. The study of friendship is included in the fields of sociology, social psychology, anthropology, philosophy, and zoology. Various academic theories of friendship have been proposed, among which are social exchange theory, equity theory, relational dialectics, and attachment styles.
Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
@ The tendency to desire what is best for the other
@Sympathy and empathy
@Honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart
@Mutual understanding and compassion
@Trust in one another (able to express feelings - including in relation to the other's actions - without the fear of being judged); able to go to each other for emotional support
@Positive reciprocity - a relationship is based on equal give and take between the two parties.
ok....so...ive heard tis once...
"U're my bestfriend! how come u dun know whether im happy or not???!!!"
we often here tis..whether frm our own life or others..
i thought.......why did tis happen anyway???
kta kan bezfren...so,why shouldnt we know???
i myself dun know the answer for tat either...
so...i jz wanna say...
think about it!
are we not good enough??are we not compatible enough???
(cheh! ngam plak ngan my blog's song kan?? ahakz! )
cz thngs like tis could ruin our friendship with our own bezfren...
so we should avoid tis thngs frm happening 2 us...
cz friendshp is the most important thng in life...
as we know...
Selemah - Lemah manusia ialah yang tak boleh mencari sahabat, dan orang yg lebih lemah adalah orang yg telah mensiasiakan sahabat yg telah dicari - saidina ali.
Renung2kanlah...dan selamat beramal!! =P hahahahhaaha!!!!!